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I’ve been tagged by Chris over at Pour Out to list personal habits that make me successful. It all started with, Aaron Potts over at Today Is That Day who started a meme. He compiled a list of habits that have contributed to his success. He then “tagged” several bloggers and challenged them to do the same.
So here’s my list:
I KISS MY WIFE: One thing I do no matter what every day before I leave to go to work is kiss my wife and tell her that I love her. It sounds simple but it it reminds my why I’m headed out the door. It allows me to start my day with the right perspective. I always try to put family first. I haven’t done this perfectly but it is what I strive for.
I WAVE AT THE DEAD PEOPLE: We live on an old farm and at the end of our drive there are three old school tombstones on the side of the road. We affectionately call them our ‘dead people’. Every time I pass them I mentally wave at them as if were in the scene of the film Dead Poets Society where Robin Williams is telling the young school boys about those who have gone before them and if they listened really closely they could hear their ghosts whispering to them ‘Carpe….Carpe Diem…seize the day boys!’. I’ve never actually heard the ghosts of our dead people and I don’t even know much about them, but it reminds me every day to remember life is short and I should live today as if it could be my last.
I COMMUTE QUIETLY: Almost every day I drive to work in silence for at least the first 10 minutes. This gives my time to think, to pray, to reflect and get my mind ready for the day. Usually it’s the only 10 minutes of quiet in my whole day.
I WORK RELAXED: I try not to take anything too seriously. I tend to work effectively when I’m relaxed and not stressed. So I simply don’t get stressed. I believe stress is a choice. I am aware of my human limitations and I place realistic expectations on myself and I don’t let others put higher expectations on me than I can handle.
I ASK FOR ADVICE: One of my goals has been to take someone to lunch each week who can teach me something new. (which is just about anyone but I try to focus on good leaders/business owners/sales people who I would like to learn from). I’m batting about .400 on this goal of doing this each week so I have some work to do but every time I do this I get a new perspective and encouragement.
I READ: A man I respect always tells me that ‘Leaders are Readers’. I rarely finish a whole book but that’s not really the point. I read books, articles, magazines, blogs….basically anything non-fiction. I don’t waste my time with fiction…if I want entertainment I just watch TV (which I rarely do).
I EXERCISE: Again not quite as diligently as I would like to but I average 30 minutes a day of working out in some form or fashion. It helps me focus and think. It gives me more energy and keeps my stress level right around the zero mark.
I SERVE: I do a lot of volunteer work with a group of local high school students. My life goal is to be a servant. I sign all my emails and written notes with ‘Serving You, Daniel Tardy’ as a reminder to myself of why I’m here. Self serving people are miserable, but people who serve others are filled with life and joy. That’s my goal.
I tag:
Michael at Marketing Monster
Raw Stylus
Brian at Bdubs